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Relationships can be hard, even when there’s a lot of love and good intention. You might find yourself overthinking every text, bracing for jealousy to spike, or quietly wondering if your needs are “too much.” Maybe you hesitate to bring things up because you don’t want to disrupt the balance, compare yourself to a metamour, or feel like the difficult one. Maybe you rehearse conversations in your head, agree to things you’re unsure about, or shut down when it’s time to name what you actually want. If any of this feels familiar, you’re in the right place.Off Script Intimacy is a coaching space for queer, kinky, and nonmonogamous folks who feel caught in patterns that don't serve them: circular arguments, mixed signals, desire that feels hard to express, intimacy that doesn’t feel as nourishing as it could. Together we’ll untangle what’s getting in the way so you can create relationships that feel grounded, connected, and genuinely exciting to live inside.

What I Offer

Individual and Partner Coaching: Navigate communication, boundaries, needs, trust, and growth.
Relationship Skills Training: Learn to initiate, maintain, or deepen meaningful, authentic connections.
Polyamory & Non-Monogamy Support: Handle jealousy, negotiate agreements, manage complex dynamics, and build resilience.
Shame-Reduction and Self-Compassion Work: Gently shift inner narratives that keep you stuck or small.
Consent & Kink Coaching: Clarify and communicate your desires, explore power exchange safely, and deepen trust.
Mediation & Repair Facilitation: For when things are tender, tense, or on the brink, and you want to reconnect with care.
Self-Relationship & Identity Coaching: Strengthen your sense of self, build a more compassionate self-image, clarify your values and desires, and learn to trust your inner voice in relationships and beyond.

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About Me

I’m Rory, Relationship & Intimacy Coach.
I hold a Master’s in Social Work and a coaching certification through Coaching Academy (accredited by IAPC&M). For over 15 years, I've engaged in advocacy, crisis intervention, and community care for queer, nontraditional, and marginalized communities. Over that time, I’ve had thousands of intimate, one-on-one conversations with people about their desires, fears, boundaries, kinks, and the many complexities of sex and relationships. These experiences have taught me how to create spaces where people feel safe enough to be vulnerable, and seen enough to be real.I support individuals and partners who are seeking to explore, heal, and grow in their romantic, platonic, and/or sexual lives. My practice is inclusive, trauma-informed and grounded in anti-oppressive values. I affirm all identities and relationship structures, traditional or otherwise, including polyamory, kink, and LGBTQ+ experiences.